I am inspired by your article but then again, no human is this balanced to have such a “perfect” perspective or mindset of love. I don’t know where two people on a daily or even occasionally will meet and share this perspective and like each other enough to start a relationship that will become long term. I have instead found love to be this- loving someone enough to put up with all their bullshit- it just has to be the kind you can stomach. Cause we’re not perfect. Also can you be infatuated through out your marriage? Otherwise what do you call that. I know you haven’t claimed this to be the perfect kind of love but more like the right kind of love.